We get so many questions about dating, relationships, girlfriends and boyfriends, physical intimacy, and the whole list of awkward sex questions.And that's totally okay by us because we're glad you're looking for biblical answers to these questions rather than trying to figure out the whole dating thing on your own or basing your actions on what the world tells you to do (2 Peter ).But what if you’ve done all this, and the guy still seems like he doesn’t get the hint you’d like to go out with him and you really want to?
If you want to shoot for a lifelong, God-honoring union with your best friend, then that is when you know it's time to start a romance (Genesis ; Matthew 19:5).
When in doubt, ask God for guidance and be prepared to trust and obey Him.
Similar to the magnificence of Heaven, her worth can be likened to the “pearl of great price” that the man went in search of and gave up everything for (Matthew -46).
If we don’t know our own worth, then we may put ourselves in situations where we are looking for the guy taking us out to provide us with our sense of worth.
This does not mean that every guy who asks us out will be up to the task.
It does not mean that we’ll like every guy who does treat us well. That’s why the guy asks us: so that we can respond, graciously and politely, with either yes or no. I tend to believe that the majority of the time, if a guy is not asking you out, then there is a reason for it.
Q: Your husband’s last blog How to Take a Girl on a Real Date had great advice for guys, but what about the other way around? He says if they do this then they will never have a bad date.
A: The number one thing Brian stresses for guys to do on a date is to uphold the dignity of a woman.
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