This echo of the masculinists of the 1970s is something not many people can argue with.
No one is trying to tell you to run your life in conflict with who you are.
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This is my girlfriend’s favorite David De Angelo quote.
He means that the man should not waste time over-complimenting (or in some reader’s eyes complimenting at all) or over-thinking your time with a woman.
And mating in humans is no different than mating in other animals: there is a good and bad side for both participants. I’m not sure De Angelo has any numbers or research to back up his claims. But some of what David De Angelo purports is not far from the mark.
He says most men lack a deep understanding of women – something women appreciate for its honesty and its insistence that women’s opinions do matter.
This kind of business savvy can translate into success at the level of professional motivator and seduction expert.
But De Angelo often traverses the boundaries of his topic, offering commentary on the scientific nature of dating and “mating” as he refers to sexual activity.
You don’t have to worry for hours about when you should start kissing, or have those awkward pauses or drifting thoughts at the end of the night when you’re trying to decide whether to make your move.
A lot of men find themselves in this awkward moment on the first date, when they can’t figure out when to kiss the woman and how to kiss the woman.
But on closer inspection it reveals another shadowy area of De Angelo’s seduction method. The woman’s feelings are but mirrors of your own posturing.
And therefore she cannot be convinced, through word or action, but must only reflect your own intentions.
In fact in my experience most women are happy for you to be “who you are”.