I blocked his number, moved to another apartment so he wouldn't find me.
Was in therapy for a long time, before I could function again as a human being.
On the first day when I found the courage to return to this website, I recognized him when Ok Cupid robot recommended him to me as a "great match". I sent a message to the administration, with a brief explanation of the situation, got no response. With a gorgeous picture I took of him (I'm a photographer).
We are not in the US, so I won't post his username here.
If you're a lady, and you've been using a dating website for some time, you're probably familiar with "psycho" profiles.
Like one of these psychopaths do not always have the kind of profiles people are posting there, quite often they are very intelligent, and maintain a facade of a charming, attentive and charismatic person.
And then out of the blue the strange behavior started.
He would disappear for days, then weeks - there was always a reason (to study, to be alone, meeting a friend).
When I would ask what he was doing, he would berate me that I'm not giving him enough space, that I should trust him more, because he loves me so much!
I felt that something was off, but there was no tangible proof to suspect anything, so I let him have the space he needed.
I started coming out of shock and moved towards the door, he grabbed my hand and said with the same smug smile "where do you think you're going, you belong here with them" Somehow I broke free, ran through the door, and ran and ran so fast.
Police wouldn't do anything, not even help me to collect my things from his house.
Just watch out for English Literature professors *wink Sorry for the long rant and thank you for reading this till the end. The facade was gone as soon as he stepped through the door every day, he would resume being verbally and physically abusive, cheated on my mother multiple times, drank heavily.