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I don't mean when your partner lies and says your new haircut "looks amazing" even if it doesn't.
What I'm referring to is if your significant other is lying about things that don't make sense to lie about (lying about where he or she was, lying about spending money, lying about his or her past, etc.).
You need to trust your partner that he or she will be there when you need him or her.
If you need a shoulder to cry on and your significant other is nowhere to be found, you may want to rethink things.
This is how they can justify things and make it all right within their head.
Therefore, if you catch your lover withholding information, this may be a sign there is a lot more that you don’t know.Lurking JWs, you might know what I’m talking about. I couldn’t have defended my position with facts and examples or even truly begin to describe what I felt back then. That is why my JW Ex and her father got me to study and go to meetings for so long despite the all the misery I was feeling from the situation. Sometimes, all it takes is one question to get rid of it and confirm you’re having an irrational moment. It took about a decade and this sub to put into words everything that I found wrong and bothered me about Witnesses.But trust is needed in building a foundation with a romantic partner.If you think having faith in others is difficult, it might be an extra challenge to have faith in your significant other. When you first start dating a person, you build it together.Be sure to be in the know about your partner’s past. If the answer to the latter is yes, you may want to dig for more information.